Pricing and membership tiers

What each tier costs, in your currency

Prices are correct as of July 2026. Each market has its own set figure rather than a conversion from sterling, so the local price is the real price rather than an exchange-rate approximation. Classic costs nothing in every market.

The currency you see is set by your location rather than chosen manually. Currencies beyond these six are supported at checkout, including South African rand, Mexican peso, Brazilian real and Indian rupee among others.

One gap worth naming rather than hiding: a weekly VIP+ price has not been published for New Zealand. The monthly figure is confirmed. If you are in New Zealand and want VIP+ weekly, the price shown at checkout is the one that applies.

Classic

Classic is a complete membership rather than a locked demo, and it is worth being specific about that because most dating platforms are not. A Classic member can build a full profile, browse everyone, receive daily match suggestions, post photos and status updates, take part in polls and comment on articles and other members' posts.

Crucially, a Classic member can read and reply to any message from a VIP or VIP+ member, without limit. You are never in the position of having someone write to you and being unable to answer. On top of that, ID verification and admin profile validation are both available at no cost, so a Classic member can carry the same trust badges as anyone else.

The one real constraint is a daily cap on messages you initiate.

VIP

VIP is the tier most active members end up on, and the reason is usually one of two features rather than the bundle as a whole.

• Unrestricted messaging. No daily cap, at any time.
• Advanced search filters. Filter by city, distance, experience level and what someone is open to. On a site organised around relationship structure, this is the feature that turns browsing into searching.
• Chat room access. Members-only group conversations.
• Private group chats. Up to 50 people, mixing VIP and Classic members. Useful for the part of this community that organises around groups and events.
• Rewind. Revisit a profile you passed on.
• See everyone who likes you. Removes the guesswork.
• Priority comment placement. Your comments surface higher in feeds.

VIP+

VIP+ includes everything in VIP and adds visibility rather than capability. It is aimed at members who want to be found rather than to do the finding.

• Exclusive matches. Access to a curated pool of premium matches.
• Priority placement. Your messages and likes are seen first.
• Boosted profile visibility. Your profile is promoted to active members in your area.
• Top of the match stack. Your profile leads other members' daily suggestions.
• Super Match add-on. Purchasable separately. A highlighted message that arrives at the top of the recipient's inbox in a distinctive colour, with your profile shown before any other.

Billing

• Cancel anytime. Membership does not lock you in for a term.
• Secure checkout. Payment details are handled by the payment provider, not stored on your profile.
• Discreet billing. The descriptor that appears on your statement is designed not to disclose the nature of the site, which matters to a meaningful share of the members described in the country guides.

Why the entry tier is a real product

It is worth explaining the reasoning, because most dating platforms do the opposite and members are right to be sceptical.

A site organised around relationship structure only works if the structures on it are real and varied. If the entry tier were crippled, the people who would leave first are the ones with the least to prove and the most to lose: members in established long-term arrangements who are not in a hurry, and members with professional reasons for caution who want to look around before committing to anything, including a payment. Those are precisely the members the community needs in order to be worth joining.

So Classic keeps the things that make the site useful, including verification badges and the ability to answer anyone who writes to you, and charges for the things that make it faster. That is a commercial decision as much as a principled one, but it is the reason the entry tier is not a demo.

What is not charged for

• Verification. ID verification and admin profile validation are available to every member on every tier at no cost.
• Reading and replying. A message from a VIP or VIP+ member can always be answered, whatever tier you are on.
• Being findable. Your profile appears in search and in daily suggestions regardless of tier. Paid tiers change placement, not presence.
• Safety tools. Blocking, reporting, location privacy and safe usernames are not features of a tier. They apply to everyone.

For what the membership actually gets you day to day, how it works covers profiles, couple accounts, search and messaging. For how members are protected, see safety.